Trusting yourself is the key to your happiness. It seems simple enough, but how do you trust yourself, when you have a history of making bad choices? Or when people have put negative thoughts into your head, which have resulted in self-doubt? Even if you have removed yourself from these people, the emotional scars and residual negative effects still remain. You may feel like you are not good enough, smart enough or just feel stuck. It is natural to wonder if you are doing the right thing. You may lose trust in others and also yourself.
Up until about five years ago, I have been asking myself these same questions. I was continually getting it wrong in regards to choosing a partner. I had close family and friends knocking me down and kicking me while I was down. My life was surrounded by drama and hurtful people. Intellectually, I knew it was wrong, but it was familiar to me. Sadly, it was the only way that I have ever known.
Eventually, I reached a point, where I gathered enough inner-strength to know that I deserved better. I struggled with trusting myself to make healthy and right decisions. I mean, I failed at making the right choices before, so why was now any different? This was a tough reality and a long process. I would like to share the lessons I have learned to help fast track you to complete happiness and to believing in yourself.Watch movie online Rings (2017)
Spend Time Self-Reflecting
It is imperative that you spend quiet time alone and self-reflect. It is important to reach a deep understanding of what is causing you to make unhealthy choices, so you will not repeat them.
Stop Listening To Conditioned and Negative Self-Talk
These are voices of your parents, sibling, or anyone who has made you feel that you are not worthy or good enough.
Surround Yourself With Positive People
Positive people allow you to be who you truly are and will love you unconditionally. They create a safe environment for you to be authentic and live your life the way you are meant to. You will feel appreciated and valued, which will help you trust that you are doing the right thing.
Overcome Your Fear of The Unknown
When you take risks and stay true to yourself, your whole world opens up. When you conquer your fears, it boosts your confidence.
Trust Your Intuition
You hear people saying all the time to “follow your intuition” or “go with your gut feeling”. How many times have you gone against your gut, only to be wrong and say “I knew I should have” or “I knew it all along”? It is extremely important to listen to your inner voice and wisdom. This is your deep “knowing”. Trust this to guide you along the right path that leads you to happiness.
It all boils down to fully trusting and believing in yourself. Just do what you feel is right. If your intentions are pure and good, then what more can you ask for? You are doing the best you can and that is good enough. Trust your inner voice, stay true to yourself and be happy!
There is no doubt that all of us have experienced “TRUST YOURSELF”!! It truly takes a lot of thinking and reasoning, to see your faults, often caused by others!! It is imperative to get the best results, by sharing your doubt with a dear/loving friend!! This happens to me regularly, but my loving friend, puts me back on track!!
Good Morning Don,
You are very wise and your words are very profound. It is always nice to have a loving friend to help guide you and is out for your best interest!
Wonderful text Trina! Congratulations. Loved your site!! Namaste
Thank you for your positive feedback Viviane. It is much appreciated! xo
Fabulous…just what I needed to read today
Thank you Wendy! Have the most wonderful day! xo
Extremely constructive, helpful with positive results, if you make use of this thoughtful information!! All of us need to regularly examine ourselves, from within, to eliminate some bad habits!!
Thank you for sharing your knowledge, which obviously comes from true experience!!
Thank you for you positive feedback Don. You are right when you said that it is important to regularly ourselves. We are the ones responsible for making choices. As we grow and have more wisdom, our choices become better.
Powerful stuff Trina! Divine timing has brought us all together. I am so excited to watch you grow, inspire, and encourage others through your own lessons and experiences! Love you and wish you must success on your new empowering journey! Namaste
Your comment is very supportive, encouraging and much appreciated MaryLou! Love you too and I am happy to have you by my side and sharing this journey with me! xoxo