DO NOT ALLOW PRIDE TO BE YOUR WEAKNESS

Having too much pride can destroy your important relationships and your life. You would rather suffer silently than bog others down with your struggles. People look to you for strength. You always hold it all together. You try so hard to be perfect and positive. You do not want to bog others down with your problems. Your biggest fear is for someone to notice that things are not as great as they appear. Your pride is the temporary glue to your unraveling.

But what if I told you, that everything is the opposite of what you are thinking? Being authentic and vulnerable humanizes you. People perceive this as a weakness, but in fact it is a great strength. It takes a strong person to remove their armor and masks that they have been hiding behind. A great lesson is to be learned in showing what others may call “weakness”. By unveiling your true self and struggles, you become stronger, more compassionate and more relatable.

 

 

Show Kindness

Some people mistake kindness for weakness. Showing kindness is the greatest form of compassion. People may not always reciprocate favorably, but that is their problem to deal with. That should not stop you from treating others with kindness and respect.

Be Vulnerable

It is hard to show your true self. You may fear that you are not good enough or that you are not living up to the expectations of others. More importantly, you may feel like a failure for not being able to live up to your own high expectations and intense self-pressure. The truth is…we are all human. We all have struggles and fears. By you being open to expressing your fears, showing your true feelings and admitting when you need help, you give others the opportunity to step up. You become more approachable. Give others the chance to really know you. Let your friends into your heart and your life. Allow for a “true” connection.

 

Cry/Release Emotions

I do not cry often, but I definitely cry more than I used to…which was never. It seems more acceptable for girls to cry, but men were expected to stay strong. I was raised this way, which I find I can relate more to a man in this category. I strongly agree with releasing emotions outwardly in some form or another. Obviously there are places where you may be expected to be professional and are not able to show emotions at the time. When you get home…go for a run, punch a heavy bag or let out a big cry. By releasing this, you will become a stronger version of you.

Swallow Your Pride

Do not be afraid to admit when you have done something wrong. It takes an extremely strong person to apologize and face a mistake. It is much easier to run and hide or avoid. The people that love you and truly care about you will have a much greater respect for you.

 

 

By showing these perceived weaknesses, you ultimately become stronger. Isn’t that ironic? Everything that you have been fearing or trying to avoid, are the actual things that you should be embracing. This is where you gain wisdom and strength. Let go of your ego and pride. People will value the strength and courage that it takes to be vulnerable and show your true self. By removing your pride, you will have deeper and more valuable connections.

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