Trina Hall Lifting You Up Higher and Higher
Fear can paralyze you. Your life can become stuck. We were not born with fear. As children, we were born carefree. There was no such thing as the fear of failure, success, death, love or the unknown. Think about it. You may need to return back to your earliest memories to remember this time. You may even have to use your imagination, but there once was a time when we had no fear of trying new things. At such a young age, you seemed invincible. Falling down, or getting hurt did not stop you from learning how to walk or run. Making mistakes or pronouncing words incorrectly, did not prevent you from learning how to talk. We were not afraid to go up to other children in the playground or beach and instantly become friends. We were loving and open to everyone, even if it was not reciprocated. When first introduced to fear, we faced it dead on and overcame it very quickly. By the time we got to the age of learning how to ride a bike, we had fallen many times and may have developed a fear of falling. That still did not stop us. We were indestructible. Then things changed.
As the years went by, negative experiences, circumstances and people all contributed to our fears. When a fear is instilled in our mind, it becomes a block. The more time we spend not facing our fears, the more control and hindrance it will have on our lives. Now that we have acknowledged the root of our fears and how they have developed, we can now take the time to conquer them, one by one.
Falling in Love Again
Being vulnerable and trusting again is extremely difficult. Trust me, I know this firsthand and all too well. It is scary to open up your heart after being hurt or betrayed. The main person you need to trust and love, is yourself. Once you have reached that point, you are ready to take the risk and love again.
Fear of Death
If you spend your time worrying about death, you prevent yourself from living. Do not waste precious moments.
Fear of Failure
The most successful people have failed at some point in their lives. The key is perseverance.
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Fear of Success
Successful people continue to expand and grow. This can become scary as you reach unfamiliar territory. People fear the unknown. Trust and allow for positive expansion, as you deserve success.
Being Judged
The more you overcome your fears and live your life “outside the box”, the more people will judge you. Mainly, it is because they do not have the courage to do what you are doing. You cannot please everyone. People who truly care about you will encourage your exciting life and bold risks. The most important thing, is to do what makes you happy.
Most fears are all in your mind. You have the power to change it. I agree with Eleanor Roosevelt when she suggested to do one thing every day that scares you. Think about all the expansion and growth. How much more adventurous and fulfilling would your life be? Choose to master and alter your perception in order to overcome this invisible wall of fear. You will feel more empowered and energized once you go beyond your limits. Do not allow fear to stand in the way of everything you dream of.
FEAR at times can be paralyzing and distract YOU from your normal life!! As YOU so well put, you must face the fear, analyze it and start taking steps, in a positive way. Remember your childhood years!! All of us experienced the falls in riding!! As TRINA says, you and only you, can conquer FEAR!!
Well said Don. I appreciate your feedback and valuable comments. Thank you.