Trina Hall Lifting You Up Higher and Higher
Do people make you feel like you are a horrible person? You live your life the best way you can. You have a heart of gold and you are out for everyone’s best interests. You would not hurt anyone, yet you never seem good enough. You feel like you are constantly walking on eggshells. It doesn’t seem to make any sense. How are you such a horrible person? The truth is, not everyone is going to understand you. Not everyone is going to like you. This may be tough to swallow.
You may have listened to people who put you down. Maybe these are the wrong people to be listening to? If these destructive words are coming from family members, you may believe them to be true. I mean, they are biologically programmed to love you, aren’t they? You may assume that they would not hurt you. Very often, the ones closest to you could be hurting you the most. Their words can become deep routed and you may have become conditioned to believe them. You may start to get down on yourself and start to believe that you are this horrible person. It is important to remember what is true and who you truly are. Did you forget how amazing you are and need to be reminded?
THEY ARE UNHAPPY
The people putting you down or not appreciating you are on a lower vibration than you are. You may represent what they wish they could be. You pose a threat to them. You know the saying “Misery loves company”? If you do not lower yourself to their level, they cannot relate to you.
DO NOT APOLOGIZE FOR BEING YOU
Are you making excuses or justifying yourself? It is important that you do not lose yourself, as there is only one you. Accept who you are and embrace yourself. You were brought into this world for a purpose. Do not allow anyone to destroy you and make you feel like you are a horrible person.
THE TRUTH ALWAYS COMES OUT
If people do not understand you now, they may later. We all have our own lessons and rate of growing. They may eventually catch up to you in time. In the meantime, focus your energy on more productive things. They may never reach the point of recognizing or acknowledging the truth. All you can be is true to yourself. The right people will cherish you.
FIND YOUR TRIBE AND YOU WILL NO LONGER BE A HORRIBLE PERSON
We all have a group of people that we instantly connect with. These people understand that you are not a horrible person without having to say a word. You do not have to defend yourself to these people. You do not have to explain yourself. It is as though you have lived parallel lives and they “know” you. They have similar morals and beliefs. You can be yourself and you do not have to be afraid of being judged. These people love and support you more than many of your own family members do. Your tribe is out there. Be on a mission to find them. Your life will be easier and happier with them by your side.
Keep spreading the love. Keep shining brightly. Compassionate, loving and positive people will flock towards you. These are the people that matter. These are the people that will lift you up instead of knocking you down.